Then dating magazine

27-Dec-2019 13:04

[Editor’s note: “Cynthia Bowman” is a pseudonym, as are other names denoted with an asterisk.

"This is nothing compared to the long lines during the oil crisis," I say to my husband, Bronson, as he pulls into a particularly crowded Mobil station near the Holland Tunnel. Or could it be caused by something as shallow and immediate as a woman's not wanting anyone to think her date is her younger brother or, God help us, her son?

Whatever part of the conventional wisdom they buy into, American women find it easy to summarily reject younger men. They could be denying themselves the most wonderful relationship of their lives.

I was married once before, to a man five years my senior.

Part 1 (Understanding Attraction) Most of us are never taught how to attract women.

First, I’m going to give you a brief background about what openers are, and why they work so well.

We've been together for seven years now, and I'm so used to considering Bronson my peer that I often forget about our 13½-year age difference. In the beginning, if I wasn't thinking, Is he too young for me? someone else was thinking it for me—and blurting out, "Hey, have you seen How Stella Got Her Groove Back?

Maybe women feel that because girls have a head start on maturity back in the seventh grade, our emotional and spiritual equals must forever be at least five years older than we are.

Many guys mistakenly believe that the only way to attract women is with money, looks, power or fame. As I know many men who have none of these, yet still have know exactly how to attract beautiful ladies. And how you have to act in order to attract a woman. And even after you have sparked her interest, you’ll still need to do things to get her chasing you.

I can tell you right now that far more important skills are learning how to flirt, or developing a better sense of humor, and learning how to tease a woman. If you want to know how to attract women you must also keep in mind that what gets her to like you is not always what keeps her around. Even though most women will say they hate “the game” you still need to play even after you learn how to attract women.

First, I’m going to give you a brief background about what openers are, and why they work so well.

We've been together for seven years now, and I'm so used to considering Bronson my peer that I often forget about our 13½-year age difference. In the beginning, if I wasn't thinking, Is he too young for me? someone else was thinking it for me—and blurting out, "Hey, have you seen How Stella Got Her Groove Back?

Maybe women feel that because girls have a head start on maturity back in the seventh grade, our emotional and spiritual equals must forever be at least five years older than we are.

Many guys mistakenly believe that the only way to attract women is with money, looks, power or fame. As I know many men who have none of these, yet still have know exactly how to attract beautiful ladies. And how you have to act in order to attract a woman. And even after you have sparked her interest, you’ll still need to do things to get her chasing you.

I can tell you right now that far more important skills are learning how to flirt, or developing a better sense of humor, and learning how to tease a woman. If you want to know how to attract women you must also keep in mind that what gets her to like you is not always what keeps her around. Even though most women will say they hate “the game” you still need to play even after you learn how to attract women.

Of course, tales of scarce men and sexual permissiveness in ancient Sparta won’t convince everyone, so I began to explore the demographics of modern religion.